NewsMacroAmid a Loneliness Epidemic, 'Third Places' Built Around Curiosity Are Drawing Crowds

Amid a Loneliness Epidemic, 'Third Places' Built Around Curiosity Are Drawing Crowds

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Key Takeaways

  • The New York Public Library reported a 10% increase in branch program attendance and a 27% rise in teen program attendance since fiscal 2023.
  • Curiosity-driven venues, such as the Pawn Chess Club and Liz's Book Bar, are serving as popular 'third places' that facilitate offline socialization.
  • Government warnings regarding the severe health risks of loneliness have motivated organizations like Hinge to support offline community building.
  • A broader backlash against digital fatigue and a decline in alcohol consumption among adults under 35 are fueling the demand for alternative social environments.
Amid a Loneliness Epidemic, 'Third Places' Built Around Curiosity Are Drawing Crowds

On a bitterly cold winter night in New York, hundreds of people lined up outside the New York Public Library — not for a concert or a restaurant opening, but simply to read. The event's format was straightforward: read silently for 20 minutes, then turn to a stranger and discuss your book. The library reached full capacity and had to turn people away.

"It was one of those subzero nights," Brian Bannon, the New York Public Library's chief librarian, told Fortune. "I thought maybe there was a sneaker sale." Instead, "it was a line of 20-somethings waiting to get into the library."

Coffee shops have long given young adults a place to work. Bars have given them a place to socialize. But as loneliness and digital fatigue reshape how people spend their free time, spaces organized around learning are discovering growing demand for something most businesses have never traditionally sold: the opportunity to think together. Sociologist Ray Oldenburg coined the term "third places" in his 1989 book The Great Good Place to describe settings beyond home and work — pubs, cafés, libraries — where informal public life happens. What is notable now is how thoroughly curiosity-driven activities, rather than commerce or consumption, are becoming the draw.

The Conversation Starter

At the New York Public Library, this shift is backed by data, not just anecdotes. Branch library program attendance rose 10% in fiscal 2026 compared with the prior year, while research library attendance increased 6%. Overall visits climbed 2% and 4%, respectively, across all age groups, according to data provided by NYPL.

Teen programming — including book clubs, chess clubs, author-led writing workshops, and creative technology courses using 3D printers — is expanding even faster. Teen program attendance is up 27% since fiscal 2023, reaching 146,000 last year, following double-digit increases of 12% and 14% in the two preceding years. Total teen visits to the library, tracked separately from program attendance, reached at least 400,000 in fiscal 2025.

"As soon as you create the environment for people to come together, they choose to do it," Bannon said.

That shift did not happen by accident. Roughly 15 years ago, Bannon said, libraries across the country began rethinking how they served teenagers — a demographic historically treated as an afterthought, squeezed between children's programming and adult services. NYPL built dedicated teen spaces equipped with recording studios, 3D printers, and graphic novels, staffed by teen mentors who design their own programming. At one Harlem branch, Bannon described walking in on two boys deep in a chess match with a strategy book propped open beside the board, another group of teens running their own LinkedIn headshot photo shoot, and a third tinkering with a robotics kit they had been building for weeks.

Shared interests, Bannon explained, are what drive connection. "When you go to a reading party, whatever you're reading becomes the conversation point," he said. "It's about what interests you."

That small shift lowers the social stakes. Instead of trying to impress someone, strangers begin with something they are genuinely curious about. Chess works the same way, Bannon noted: "It allows you to be social without being social." He pointed to the cultural afterglow of Netflix's The Queen's Gambit as evidence that the appetite was already there — libraries simply had to meet it.

A New Kind of Third Place

Pawn Chess Club arrived at a similar conclusion. Founders Simone Robert and Isabel Münter were not trying to revive chess. They simply wanted a place to play that felt more like the bars and restaurants they already enjoyed than the intensely competitive chess clubs they found intimidating. The club launched in May 2023 in the borrowed private dining room of a friend's restaurant, envisioned as something bigger than just a casual game among friends.

In the three years since, the club now regularly draws more than 100 people to weeknight events, and roughly half of attendees arrive alone. Their goal is to curate events that encourage people to "slow down" and be intentional, whether with friends or strangers. "There's a lot of distractions and there's a lot of speed and energy to the city, so we try to counter that," Münter told Fortune.

The club has partnered with Hinge, whose One More Hour initiative encourages people to spend more time connecting offline. Münter said she was motivated by government reports describing loneliness and isolation as reaching epidemic levels among younger generations. In 2023, U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy issued a public health advisory warning that loneliness and social isolation carry health risks comparable to smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day, and younger adults reported some of the highest rates.

The founders say they have watched friendships form, first dates unfold, and strangers return week after week. "We have a lot of people who come to us and they're like, oh, I actually had a really shitty day and I was just about not to come to this," Münter said. "And now I feel better, and it kind of ended my day on a high."

Neither the Pawn Chess Club founders nor Bannon view this trend as separate from shifting drinking habits among young people. Münter and Robert said Pawn's low-key, no-pressure format appeals in part because guests don't feel obligated to drink or stay out late — a dynamic Bannon has noticed as well, though he stopped short of calling it more than a hypothesis. Gallup data has shown that the share of adults under 35 who drink alcohol has declined markedly over the past two decades, with many citing health, cost, and a preference for socializing without it.

"I think everyone was just craving to meet in person again and get more offline," Münter said.

On August 7, Pawn will host an evening of chess in the garden at the Noguchi Museum in Astoria, timed to coincide with an exhibition featuring sculptor Isamu Noguchi's own chess set — part of what Münter described as a growing effort to bridge chess with the art world.

Trading Screen Time for Shared Attention

That same instinct inspired Maura Cheeks to open Liz's Book Bar in Brooklyn. Her goal was not simply to open another bookstore, but to create a neighborhood space where people could meet, learn, and leave knowing someone they had not known before. Since opening in June 2024, she has watched customers become friends, regulars build community, and even romantic relationships begin between people who first met in the space.

The crowd, Cheeks said, is not limited to young adults. "We actually have a pretty good mix" of ages, she told Fortune — something she attributes partly to the neighborhood itself.

"I think people gravitate towards these kinds of spaces because reading is so tactile," Cheeks said. "It offers a different way to engage your mind. People still want to learn and they want to be inspired." The appeal, she said, is that these gatherings demand very little. "You don't have to sign up for five courses. You can just find something that you find interesting."

Cal Newport, author of Digital Minimalism, said that instinct reflects a broader backlash against an internet increasingly designed to capture attention rather than enrich it.

"Simply asking people to use their devices less because they are bad is rarely effective," Newport said. "You have to instead create an analog life so compelling and meaningful that the digital diversions on your phone pale in comparison."

Newport traces the shift to several overlapping forces: social apps chasing TikTok's algorithmic model at the expense of genuine networking, a souring public view of Silicon Valley's leadership since the era of Steve Jobs, and now an AI boom he described as unusually "joyless and often unnerving," with little visible upside for most people's daily lives. "People are done with all of this," he said.

That may help explain why silent reading parties are drawing lines around the block, libraries are seeing attendance climb, and chess clubs are filling neighborhood bars and museum gardens alike. For years, technology promised frictionless entertainment and unlimited information. Now, many young adults appear to be searching for something information alone cannot provide: a reason to leave the house, meet a stranger, and think together.

"People love to hate where we are as a society," Bannon said. "What we're really light on is talking about the stuff that's working."